cant find directories with flash fxp

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I used a cross over cable (J-45) then i set my ip address on my computer and default gateway settings i also set up my xbox ip address in the flash fxp program that i found on the dashboard in setup.The computers default gateway settings were set exactly as the xboxes which both were at 192.168.0.1 my computers ip i set at 192.168.0.2 and my xbox ip was set at 192.168.0.157.Once i had all the settings i booted up the xbox and the connection icon at the task bar went out so i thought this is a good sign, next i went to my flash fxp program and hit quick connect on the top right window i tried both with a password(xbox) and without(anonymous). Each time the flash fxp program would show at the bottom that i was connected but i still had no directories in the right hand window (xbox) and the connection would last about 20 seconds then fail. I had the sand dial in the right window the whole time until the connectio failed. The cross over cable is connected directly to the xbox and computer.