Battlfield 2 Question

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k here are my specs:
Intel Pentium 4HT, 3200 MHz
1024 MB (DDR SDRAM)
NVIDIA GeForce 6800 (256 MB)
Multimedia Intel 82801EB ICH5 - AC'97 Audio Controller
Maxtor 6Y200P0 (200 GB, 7200 RPM, Ultra-ATA/133)
ATAPI DVD DD 2X16X4X16
DVD-ROM 16X (16x DVD-ROM)
LITE-ON DVD+RW LDW-401S (DVD:4x/4x/12x, CD:40x/4x/40x DVD+RW)

i am also behind a router which i have no idea if it has anything to do with this....

thanx for trying to help....

if no one knows ill guess ill go to EA tech Suport

edit: i have a friend and we connect thru teamspeak we play on a server when we load he always goes ingame real quickly... ive also asked more than one friend... it loads quick for all of them xcept for me... its just that verifying client data part right after the map is done loading