cant find directories with flash fxp

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Today i am still trying to connect my xbox to the computer i know that the cable is a brand new cross over cable and i am connected directly into my nic card without a router once i bring up flash fxp and connect it does seem to connect and will stay connected for about 20 seconds but then it boots the connection. During the time it is connected i do not see any directories on the right side of the flash program for the xbox. Do i have to put the cd into the box after i start the flash program or before and if before what do i have to do with the evolution x dashboard once the cd is loaded.I am running XP and matrix mod with evolution x dashboard and running evod6red bios 256 kb. I am a total newb so please be patient.