Relationship Blues :(

[Jay_83]

Ok lets get this straight,

I've met a girl who's perfect.

Wakes you up with a coffee every morning, doesn't mind gaming and will happily sit there playing my games (Badly but I dnt mind! hehe)

But i'm not attracted to her ie there's no spark!

What the hell can I do? Anyone else had this problem?

[AXmichigan]

uhh
paperbag her?

[TylerDurden]

Ok first thing, no girl is perfect. Thats one of those messed up thing your mind tells you usually when your in love.

Now, knowing that make sure you make mental notes of little quirks that make her unperfect. Those will be the things that youll usually fall in love with in the end.


Lastly, the thing to do is go out and find the most beautiful girl you can find. I mean on thats like way out of your league. Also one with an attitude problem is an added bonus. Ask her out. When she rejects you, call the girl youve been talkin about and youll find that shes a lot more appealling.



Take this advice at your own risk.


Tyler!

[AXmichigan]

mine'll work if that doesnt...

also
personality will make her look alot better in a lil time
ull see what i mean

[Jay_83]

LOL, note taken!

You see the problem is that she doesn't have any faults! In all honesty I think the problem is very slack but I hope people don't take it the wrong way.

Basically she's a very petite girl (Runs in the family) and even though she's 22(Same age as me) she looks no older than around 14/15. She also sounds this way too.

Whenever we go out to the cinema she gets ID's, HMV, ID'd and I know it isn't her fault but I feel strangly uncomfortable about it. Her clothes have to be specially bought as even a size 8 at next is too big!

I've spent the last 2 months putting it "on hold" and thinking about how slack it seems as it isn't her fault but nomatter where we go, or whatever we do there are always dirty looks coming my way.

It's not as if i'm being pathetic about her looks (trust me i've had some dogs in my time!) but I feel like I can't enjoy the relationship because of people's snide comments and looks.

[AXmichigan]

dude
now thats retarded
f*ck what everyone thinks
if u love her
then thats all that matters man
come on
man up

[Jay_83]

Mate,

Trust me if you knew the situation you wouldn't be saying that. I have no problem with her (and you can't love some1 you've only been seeing a few months!)

The problem I have is the comments and looks other people give. It's easy to say **** what everyone else thinks. But when it's 24/7 it simply isn't that easy mate!

I was even pulled up in a restaurant because the waiter thought I was giving drinks to a underage kid.

It's not funny and it isn't as simple as saying forget what other people think

[JoyBoy]

Originally Posted by Jay_83

Basically she's a very petite girl (Runs in the family) and even though she's 22(Same age as me) she looks no older than around 14/15. She also sounds this way too.

It's not as if i'm being pathetic about her looks (trust me i've had some dogs in my time!) but I feel like I can't enjoy the relationship because of people's snide comments and looks.

Hahahaha, dude, I know EXACTLY what you mean. Recently at the Uni I was at, there was this very little girl, yet she was older then me. Great Personality and everything, told her some secrets and ****, thought, to myself "You know what, this feels right, lets ask her how she feels"

I also hanged around with very immature guys, constant jibes and ****, me being 6 foot and her being 3 foot or something. In the end I just left it, I preffered the respect of my mates over 'love'. To this day I regret it. Ended Uni on a real downer. Ending up being a proper prick towards her.

Heck, I think it was I who came up with the best nickname for her, Jailbait. Flipping hilarious. But damn, what a missed opportunity. That little midget could have been the 'one'

[Jay_83]

BountyWarrior you've hit the nail on the head. Thats exactly the way I feel.

I've actually ****ed a number of friends off because of them being immature about it yet here's the low down.

I've spent weeks thinking this over and it's so god damn difficult.

She's perfect but I just don't have the 'lust' i've had in the past...and I think the jibes/looks about the size is the region.

yet I know i'l regret it if I let her go.......

[JoyBoy]

In my opinion, I say it would be best to put some space between you two for a few days and see if she constantly plays on your mind. If she does, then you know what that means

Obviously, if she doesnt, then it was never meant to be. Let her go. Nicely of course

[MorgueMouse]

Originally Posted by TylerDurden

Ok first thing, no girl is perfect. Thats one of those messed up thing your mind tells you usually when your in love.

Now, knowing that make sure you make mental notes of little quirks that make her unperfect. Those will be the things that youll usually fall in love with in the end.


Lastly, the thing to do is go out and find the most beautiful girl you can find. I mean on thats like way out of your league. Also one with an attitude problem is an added bonus. Ask her out. When she rejects you, call the girl youve been talkin about and youll find that shes a lot more appealling.



Take this advice at your own risk.


Tyler!

That is the best/hilairous advice on women I've ever heard!

[TylerDurden]

It'll work too.





Tyler!

[seaneyb2003]

Well **** those people dude if they take the piss then there not true friends. If you read a book called doing it by melvin burgess it rocks! it tells you how teenagers lifes are affected by relationships and ****. I reccomend u read it.

Anyway if you get on well with her but there no phisical attraction i say just stick with it as long as you get on well with each other, whats the problem in that? Id rather keep a girlfriend than dump one for that reason beacause that could hert her feelings if u dumped her for that reason and can damage someones confidence. i know im only 16 but this crops up often to me nd my mates. My mate was going out with a 14 year old and hes 16 and some people were calling him a pedo but there immature pricks thats neva had a girlfriend. I say stick with it!

Anyway Continuin on Ive also you see 15 yr olds going out with 22 year olds and think nothing of it really. Its just jumped up pricks who think wrongly. Damn id rather have a girlfriend than a boy whos a friend if u know what i mean not gay like. Altho tyler might be a bit defensive on that we know he bats for the other team we cant stop him now can we. hehe

I say talk to her about it maybe even speak 2 ur good friends or relatives im sure they have had the same experiences i know i have. A quote from a good song "girls are such a drag" but bitchin is a bigger drag.

[TylerDurden]

Whatever you say Seaney.





Tyler!