Hello dippy1423
You want a program called Stomp Record Now Max. (Not sure if your drive is supported but theres only one way to find out!)
Media : Any Ritek dye media, try and get g04 if you can.
DVD-R media is better than the DVD+R in ps2's.
The DVD+R is cheaper to produce but most ps2's dont like them.
If you are using a swap mod its your fault if things dont boot. Wait for Evo to reply. Hes the one that likes the 'ghetto' method of booting
Hope that helps.