want to get dms4 se pro but i have some questions

[hakz]

hi, on the alt b g and i points, i can't get the wire to stay on that tiny hole. the diagram makes it look a lot bigger lol.

i try to get some solder onto it, but the solder is so thin that it seems to disintegrate or maybe stick onto the tip. Just doesn't stick to the board. I don't think i've damaged the points luckily, but when I try and add the wire onto the hole, it doesn't stay there.