Hey just came out of the oven need a lot of help please!

Hey everyone thanks for reading my post. I know how you are all probably tire of being asked the same questions but beleive me I really tried to find the answer before I posted this so here it goes.

Well I downloaded the Utopia boot disk the diskjugler version and I have diskjugler V2.0 I placed the Cdloader file in the source slot and I set the settings to what some of you folks have been posting. Well the prob is that the start button never turns on for me to be able to press it. The button only remains grayed out. I'm probably doing something totally wrong but I haven't the slightest clue on how to make the boot disk. If anybody is willing to help me out please do so I will really appreciate it. You can post a reply or if you wouldn't mind emailing me some instructions to [email protected] this would also be good. Thanks so much.