i honestly dunno if i can send you the url since it's from another member's own site, who also belongs to the other Sim's group that i do...my Sim's group is kinda touchy about that stuff...but if you really want that patch, i would suggest, being a member of
http://www.yahoogroups.com
once you get there, you'll want to join the killersims group.
then i'm sure that person will give you the URL from their site, or someone might know of somewhere else to get it, if you join the killersims group.
sorry i couldn't be of more help.