Hi, i want to create my own installer, but i am a newbie in creating installers. So i ask the pros

My first questions:
1. How to build a graphic which stands out the normal window frame?
2. How to hide the normal windows frame?
3. How to implent this close, minimize and music-control button?
4. How to rename the button name, for example from "configure" to "customize"?
Thanks in advance. Every helping answer is welcome