ok, first of all i have to say that you guys (and girls of course) rock
if it does help anyone, i'll tell you how it worked for me...
1. download DT 4.06 (link provided by Riggadon in 1 of his posts)
2. download Yasu 1.4 (link provided by Zulu)
3. use posedon's original files
4. in DT emulate only securerom (thanks Riggadon again)
5. in Yasu turn of safedisc, use only securerom (again, thanks to Riggadon)
6. don't worry, be happy... erm i meant - play the game
7. short notice: the cursor goes "CD" again (it changes to a spinning CD), but then it changes back to an arrow and the game launches as usual
i went on for about 2 months (game time), no crashes at all... with the fixed exe i had a crash every 2-3 days. so... everythings' fine, exept i didn't qualify for Euro cup with England, stupid Israel threw me out hehe