The black and white bit is easy.

Either use a PS2 SCART (fully loaded) lead made by BLAZE available from HMV in the UK and presumably elsewhere in Europe (thanks to DAL for this advice). If not BLAZE then do what I do, buy a NTSC to PAL convertor that sits between the PS2 and the AV sockets of the PAL TV. Use it for NTSC games; remove it for PAL games.