[help_plz]

ok im running windows 95 n dos i know nuttin bout dos. i just got a serial link for the dc/pc hook up i tried everything on this site disk jugg/nero burn/cd clone etc.. i have no idea how to make the boot cd i dont know what format to use iso audio etc... i am reallly getting lost at the bootstrap/ip.bin/n image part for the boot cd i wasted 15 dc-r cds so far i only got 2 left lol..plz help
also i need to know what softwear i need on the cpu end to use the cable
n i heard theres a program so u can upload the ram from the dc while u r playing n u can change the hex numbers to alter the game what program is this n where i get it. is it even tru?
i am totally clue less . if sum one can make a bootcd n zip it jus the way it need to be burned i would really apreatice it if thats even possable
i need dummy speach steps by steps on how to do this if u can plz take a couple of min to reply to this the more help the better
ty for taking your time n reading this