lol. it'd help if i paid attention to the user manual for the chip.
http://www.dms3.com/cgi-bin/dms3/site.pl?page=manuals\
Of course, that doesn't help tell me how to use stealth mode... but DVDs work fine if i hold the Square button til the Sony screen appears. Is it normal DVDs only play when the button is pressed, or did i still screw the install somehow?
I should flash upgrade the thing, but after seeing the stories in the DMS3 forum, im a little skiddish...
Edit: I found out how to use Stealth mode. Its the same as most chips, simply holding down eject to power the unit on until the sony screen appears