Mate,
Trust me if you knew the situation you wouldn't be saying that. I have no problem with her (and you can't love some1 you've only been seeing a few months!)
The problem I have is the comments and looks other people give. It's easy to say **** what everyone else thinks. But when it's 24/7 it simply isn't that easy mate!
I was even pulled up in a restaurant because the waiter thought I was giving drinks to a underage kid.
It's not funny

and it isn't as simple as saying forget what other people think