ok this is the thing i got a non solder mod but it would move so i tried tightning the srew some more then i strip the hole

so i thought the only way to get a good connectoin would be to solder wires to the mod and solder them on the motherboard. but i didn't know that you where duppose to use a 15 watt solering iron i used a 30 watt. yaya i know im stupid. a friend of mine has the dirty disck error on his so im going to buy his and use my dvd rom. so would anyone want to buy my motherboard?