It WORKSSSSSSS !!!!!!!!
I ripped all the wires off and cut everyone to fit. This time i used thicker wire for the ground and 3.3v.
Im not sure what the actual cause of the problem was in the first time.
The 2 things i did different this time was cut all the wires to fit and used thicker wires for ground, power.
Im not sure if using thicker wires would cause the backups not to work or not. Anyone know?
My camera is just a junk one so you cant see very good but you can sorta see..
Thanks for the help everyone who responded.
Ive learned alot from this install.