Damn...that's only me that's stupid enough to not follow the instructions...
It says clearly "push eject, put in disc and close tray by puching eject"
did I do that??? no no... just used eject to open the tray then I puched the tray to close...
well.. when I did as it said then it worked....
So there is nothing to wrong at all...
*fells lika a jackass right now*