i just don't understand what he means:
"UNDO refresh rate"
should i set the frequency to 0 ????

Ok, I've just installed the refresh rate program, (not that I need it as my monitor will easily do 120) and reread the tutorial 'Machina' posted.
I think they mean just set all the settings to default in the refresh rate program? Refresh overiding should be set to 'OFF'

@Haku258
Machina is actually saying in his thread to NOT use this sort of software!!
He is saying it is this type of software which messes up the DirectX refresh rates! He goes on to say to reset the program to its default settings then UNINSTALL IT!
It is 'RincewindTheWiz' who says he uses this software but with a Geforce 3 card! You have a Geforce 4 card and therefore may want to try Machina's other suggestion with the DXDIAG!
And also the thread was written 14 months ago!!

oh man... i tried everything out.... the last thing i can do now is this with the n-vidia driver. but this won't work

Did you try Machina's suggestion with DirectX?

yes i tried, and still the same problem

Then I think you need to contact tech support or see about a refund!

does it work with your original discs?