I suggest redownloading the emulator. I have no idea what the problem could be.

i tried reinstallin em
ultraxle works
pj64 works
surreal doesnt for some reason...

Surreal 64 must have some strange bugs about the drive paths. I tried 5530K again, no roms showed and I know my paths are set right in the INI. So I imported the default.xbe from V1.0, left all other 5530K files the same including the INI file and BAM, roms load no problem.